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The Queer Compass: Sex Over Community

By Cator Sparks, Life Coach Hey Coach, Most of the gay men in my life are folks I have had sex with. I would love to...

The Queer Compass: Vulnerability and gay Men

By Cator Sparks One of the topics I hear over and over with queer clients is the feeling that they don’t have a deep connection...

The Queer Compass: 6 Tips for App Exhaustion

By Cator Sparks Y’all. Who here has opened up the apps and resurfaced three hours later in a haze of dick pics and broken promises...

NEW Column! The Queer Compass

By Cator Sparks Hey Folks! I’m Cator Sparks, and I am a certified professional Life Coach focusing on all men and specializing in the queer...

Dear David: Break Up to Wake Up

I have dated some great guys, and I have even been in a few shorter relationships. Every time they have ended undramatically and just...

Dear DAVID: Come to Daddy

Q I’m a gay guy in my fifties, and I have an issue with finding sex partners that are compatible with me. More precisely: I’m...

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